Where does the time go? Didn’t realize I have been so remiss in posting updates until I started sharing my blog this weekend with a friend.
Thanksgiving 2012 has been a bit challenging for me. It was a year ago that I shared with my family and friends that I was having my surgery. I am back with them a year later a much healthier, happier person. However, it was a difficult time for me. While I have learned new habits, changed my food habits, tastes have changed – in part because of the surgery – and in part because they had to in order for me to be a success…the worlds that my family live in have not changed. So I worked with what I had…added what I could…and made the best of it.
What challenges could there be? I can hear that question loud and clear. Carbs were the worst. Recently I have been feeling challenged by the excess carbs that are being added to the menus in my home since my husband has retired. And it was no different this weekend. From freshly baked dinner rolls to more than seven pies (but I did contribute two bean pies to try to introduce a new taste to the family) … it made for difficulty in navigating the Thanksgiving buffet. Selecting turkey over the ham loaf wasn’t hard but walking past the dinner rolls was like slicing my wrists. I was dying to dive in and never look back. But I didn’t.
I stood for myself and asked to have unsweetened tea made. I did enjoy asparagus wrapped with bacon and baked. My brother-in-law didn’t realize that he was helping me have a bit of enjoyment with his addition to the menu. Thank you Dan! And my sister, Janell, added fresh broccoli to the menu.
Okay, enough whining. I am keeping my eye on the prize of being healthy and it is one day (well in this case, a weekend) out of the big picture. When I look at pictures from last year compared to this year – I have made great strides. Over 110# gone forever. I am drinking my Body by Vi shakes while I am traveling to help keep me on track. It has made a difference between caving in totally or not.
During my trip back to Ohio, I was able to catch up with some friends. To remind myself how far I have come, I stopped in to see Lee Kelly and take a picture in the same spot where we took one last year. This my friends, is my measure of success….
I am thankful for the success that I have had the past 11 months. I am pleased to see that the closet is starting to fill with smaller clothes and that the fat clothes are gone. I am having fun finding new clothes and new looks. It is an amazing feeling to walk into a store and buy “pretty” clothes that make me feel pretty.
So for the quick comparison – I re-created a photo with my dear friend and wonderful supporter, Lee Kelly on Thanksgiving Day this year.
So my friends…as I approach my year anniversary of the surgery that has changed my life, I leave you with this thought. When you want something bad enough, you can have it – simply put it out to the universe and begin living as if it is so – and it will come to pass.
If you are reading this blog and are considering one of the bariatric surgeries, I am very open to listening to your concerns as well as sharing my insights to help you make a decision that is best for you.
Watch for the annual update blog!